"Yer not from round 'ere" - should we challenge posts from non-SE23 residents?

It wasn’t clear that the first paragraph wasn’t directed towards me.

It’s quite clear that we all agree that we don’t mind differing opinions, it makes life more interesting and helps us learn. However, it is what follows that is problem.

No-one here is trying to censor anyone nor is anyone suggesting this happens. If they are, then I am not supporting that stance. The majority here are happy to engage in friendly debate. It’s when that debate is no longer friendly that’s when people get upset and find they can no longer engage with this or other forums.

I know that Chris is no longer the owner and I appreciate the time and effort he took to set this up but the legacy lives on. I know the history behind the other forum and what happen and continues to happen with certain individuals. It created quite the stir around Forest Hill and resulted in some local businesses no longer wanting to be affiliated with this forum.

Forest Hull is already making a positive change and I appreciate that he has allowed this debate to continue. However, certain people need to stop stirring this up.

2 Likes

And if people don’t like the content of a thread, they are free to go onto any other. We don’t stop reading a newspaper because we dont like one article.

3 Likes

Thanks @beatrix - it’s certainly a challenge, but the forum community seem to be reaching a reasonable consensus here, and possibly the moderators need to be a bit stricter/bolder on making sure things follow the guidelines on being agreeable and such like.

Of course, it’s helpful to moderators if members can sensibly flag problems, noting the following paragraph was recently added to FAQ:

Note: Please don’t waste moderators time by flagging posts you simply disagree with. It’s okay for people to have different opinions or values; flagging should only be used for posts which break these guidelines.

I probably don’t need to remind anyone that the moderators are volunteers and have their own families, jobs, responsibilities and such like, and I’m eternally grateful for their help and contributions.

2 Likes

Thank you FH, your are far better at this to me. And as I have said before, and as @ForestHull has said above. Please don’t abuse the flagging. :pray:

3 Likes

Is there an ongoing issue with people flagging things that needn’t be flagged? If so, is it particular people, or just a note to everyone in general?

You, at least, quote sections of the FAQ to back up your moderation decisions. I’ve always liked that about your moderation style since you came on board. Glad that @oakr came back. I’ve not really interacted with / seen moderation actions of the other moderators enough to pass comment, apart from @clausy, but he seems to have disappeared from the forum in recent weeks.

Point is, I think the mod team are doing a good job overall. I know it’s not an easy job, and I know from moderation experience in other forums that sometimes certain users make you want to throw your computer out the door (I’m aware I’m probably one of those users) - but you (as in the royal you) generally keep your cool, and I think that makes for a more welcoming environment in which people feel that they can share their thoughts and feelings without too much backlash. Sometimes, anyway.

2 Likes

Yes, there are a small minority who will flag for whatever reasons. Maybe the don’t like the poster or content of the post. But if it doesn’t break forum guidelines then it just makes a mockers of the flagging system.

Most flags are seen by, and commented on by, ALL the mods. We mod by consensus so as to give call for the widest range of views and feeling.

We have made efforts with Discourse, the developers to see if we can add a “why did you flag” option but this is not available yet.

So please, before anyone flags, have a cup of tea, think about it, consider if it does break guidelines. And then decide what to do.as I have been at pains to say, of you don’t like the content of a thread or the direction it is going. Leave it there and move on.

1 Like

It’s a general comment. There’s no problem with flagging things which are abusive, offensive or drag things wildly off topic. A good rule of thumb is that if you think it shouldn’t be said in the pub or over a restaurant meal, it likely shouldn’t be said here either. Don’t engage just flag. Once it gets to a string of posts, it gets a lot harder to clear up.

What we sometimes see though is people (on both sides of the political fence) flagging valid opinions they don’t agree with. That’s when moderation becomes a lot more onerous.

3 Likes

I think there’s a little uncertainty sometimes about when to use the flag system for posts that seem to stray in to general politics. I’ve previously been asked to flag rather than debate these types of posts as a result of long discussions that probably get very tedious for everyone, but then on some occassions these flags don’t result in clearly political posts being removed (which I suppose could lead moderators to think the flags are vexacious, which is not the intent). I agree that an option to note reasons for flagging would be useful, but I would also say that having a ‘no general politics’ rule will naturally lead to to lots of flags if members frequently interject with general political views. As a user of the forum I simply don’t know how strictly the mod team want to take that rule, and whilst I like the pub example, that is different to rule against general politics. As a result I’ve refrained from flagging anything for a while as it often just seems to muddy the waters further! As ever, thanks mod team for all the time you put in here, not an easy task!

2 Likes

Thank you, @Londondrz and @applespider for your responses. They were very helpful. I briefly spoke with @Londondrz in a DM (slow mode on this thread prevented me replying) about options presented when flagging a message :

The issue, it seems, is not that there are no options presented when a user flags a post - it’s just that people don’t actually fill out the free-text to explain why they are flagging something. I imagine people taking the time to fill out this box would make life easier for the moderators.

Ah, and a response off-forum from @clausy - linking as requested.

PS

I’m a big fan of using slow mode in some threads. I especially like that it does not allow you to edit previous comments - which means that you really have to make sure you think about the message you are writing before hitting reply. :+1:

5 Likes

Good post, the issue I’ve had before is that if you want to flag something off topic, and explain why, you have to pick ‘something else’ even though there is a specific option for ‘off topic’ - it just doesn’t give you a free text box. Not a big issue if the mods don’t mind the workaround I suppose.

2 Likes

Perhaps a little contradictory, that this is a local conversation but globally inclusive.

I think the real issue is that some posters regard their own views as non-political, whereas political neutrality is a concept that many simply see as impossible, a fantasy. Some posters who believe that their views are non-political actually get to express their political views, but other participants have to keep quiet.

There is also still quite a bit of ad hominem attacking going on - sometimes disguised as general opinion about other posters. Here are a couple of recent examples:

“some people struggle to tolerate different opinions” - means those people who disagree with me.
“I’m sure some bright spark will respond with …”- this is a pre-emptive ad hominem attack on whoever won’t let me have the last word on this. “Bright spark” = idiot.

6 Likes

It’s not perfect but until the developers tweak it’s what we have to work with.

It is so much easier to understand why people flag if they explain why. That gives us a chance to speak as mods and come to a general consensus. 99% of the time we all agree, a lot of forums leave that up to the particular foibles of the owner we just like to keep things as open and transparent, and fair, as possible.

That is your interpretation, others may see it differently.

The issue with an online forum is it doesn’t allow you to judge people on their nuances, facial expressions or the way they say things.

But it allows you to say them.

1 Like

I think I explained why that may happen in my post here: "Yer not from round 'ere" - should we challenge posts from non-SE23 residents?

A recent example, I think, was a flag on a 5 day old post which already had a mod response. Cutting the post out would have orphaned the mod response, and 5 days after the event there isn’t a lot to be gained - most people will have seen the problem post, and any reaction already registered or posted.

Personally I see moderation working best when it steers an ongoing discussion out of the rough; there’s a lot less use in to trying to change a discussion after the fact, unless something is clearly offensive or personal.

3 Likes

Where you and others get the time for all this refereeing/moderation I can’t imagine. I never realised there was so much to it. I hope that the fact that someone may have to clear up after me will make me think twice before I shoot my mouth off from now on.

6 Likes

I think there are a few issues that play here, if I may remove my councillor hat and on put on my ‘forum user’ hat.

I am sympathetic to the idea that politics can rarely be separated from day-to-day civic life. Take a fairly non-controversial issue, such as the (seen by many as) inadequate pedestrian crossing on London Road. Any decision to prioritise funding for its refurbishment - the allocation of TFL funds - the extent and limits of central government’s bailout of a Covid-19 hit TFL (and the decision by a previous Mayor and Chancellor to make TFL self-funding) - these are all inherently ‘political’. Should a new traffic island prioritise the movement of pedestrians over the South Circular? That is small-p political in my opinion, like most things that shape the world around us. It is very hard for topics like this not tread into the political. But just because something is political, it does not need to cause a full-blooded culture-war discussion.

However, with this being said I had to laugh when Chris said ‘I think the most important form of diversity on a forum is diversity of opinion’.

Now, I know a couple of people on this forum who hold ‘liberal’ (for want of a better term) views who have been ground down and driven out. They’ve dropped from the forum altogether or very rarely post. It is interesting to see a few more people express this as well and judging by the likes they’ve received they are not alone.

Previously, I am told, that when Chris owned this website, people were simply blocked for repeatedly challenging him and the politicisation of debates. Under the new helm, I have not seen that but I would say that Chris is what I would call, in jest, a master of the ‘dark arts’. Chris will not use foul or abusive language or direct name-calling. However, he will challenge you, robustly, and incessantly. He will quote you with something you have not said. The outcome is to harass those with views he rejects and to signal to like-minded followers in the forum to get involved or to signal that this their place.

Example 1: Unsafe crossing for pedestrians, Honor Oak Rd and A205/London Rd

Example 2: Lockdown 3

Examples 3: Lewisham planning to use Experimental Traffic Orders?

There is a network or clique, as alluded to in a previous post, who boost each other’s posts - liking each other’s post, offer encouraging replies etc. This group shape the debate on most threads and they will target voices they don’t like, usually with Chris leading the charge. Often, it’s through a wink and a nod to encourage comments like this. Another classic tactic I’ve witnessed is to accuse someone of being divisive if they don’t like their view - which isn’t classified as an ad hominem attack by moderators…

This thread is quite illustrative and shows how legitimate concerns by those who live on the affected street are lent on, whipped up and cheered on by this group. Examples here, here. The target is usually the liberal interventionist council (60% of our funding has been cut since 2010 and our public realm has suffered the consequences, but we’re still trying to do what we can improve the borough as we sit fit, building new homes, encouraging sustainable transport, all while protecting the most vulnerable - over half our budget goes on adult and children’s social care ).

Now Chris might just see this all as winning the robust argument and that might be fair. Voices hostile to new housing, to LTNs, to School Streets, to the ULEZ-extension etc, are winning the argument on the forum and the *NIMBY-*sentiment is the prevailing sentiment on the (forum) community.

My hunch is that that isn’t necessarily the case but instead, certain voices are being drowned out by constant challenges, questioning, barbs, and are ground down by the heavy-politicisation of discussions that slide off-topic. I think frustration springs from the inability of members to effectively call out bad behaviour, including challenging those who regularly respond aggressively (in tone) to posts and who respond to fairly innocuous comments with politicised rants.

I think the rules of the forum are designed to protect Chris and other’s conduct. No ‘Ad hominem attacks’ - therefore you cannot challenge Chris (or others) behaviour because this would be seen to attack one’s character rather than the argument at hand on any given thread. ‘Responding to a post’s tone instead of its actual content’ is against the rules in this forum, protecting people from accusing Chris (or others) of being hostile or bullying in tone rather than engaging the content of his argument (I accept tone can be hard to read online, but it is down to moderators to make this call). The rules explicitly state 'criticise ideas, not people’ and therefore moderators will intervene if you challenge his behaviour. Seen even in this thread.

All in all, the effect is clear to me. The more liberal-leaning, ‘yes-in-my-back-yard’ voices, are driven from the forum and threads are dominated by not only the same accounts but the same arguments. Diversity of opinion has dwindled even in the relatively short time I’ve been following the site.

The councillors of Perry Vale ward and Crofton Park ward don’t get involved in this forum and we know why - just look at some of the replies I and Sophie get. I used to get protection from the site’s owner and moderators*, I presume because they wanted to keep me involved - a local councillor regularly engaging on the forum does give it some kudos and authority. A privileged position which isn’t afforded to most regular posters.

Some might wonder why I care and why I am posting all this? My answer is because, personally, SE23.Life is a good way for me to keep tabs on casework matters and interesting events taking place in the ward. Moreover, as a user, this is probably the most organised local forum I’ve ever come across and has an impressive and easy to use interface. The website has much potential, along with its sister site SE26.Life. I would like it to thrive, become more diverse in opinion, and be a safe space for all sections of the community.

Yet it is clear this forum has issues and many people are exasperated with its regular heated tone and same inevitable political direction debates go down.

I would like to encourage more ex-regular posters to express their thoughts here and as to why they have taken a step back.

I hope @ForestHull who now owns the site, will reflect on what those such as @PV @promofaux @Fran_487 @beatrix have said already and listen to any additional feedback that is offered. Finally, I would like @ForestHull to see this - a small minority of forum users post a large number of attacks on others, kicking off the conflict. Some relatively small changes to this forum could make a big difference.

This post will probably be hidden by the moderators but in posting this, I hope it gives the new owner some food for thought in how to stop the loss of longstanding contributors, foster a better atmosphere, and encourage a broader array of views on the site.

*Just chuckling to myself as I never got any thanks for the wooden bollards outside The Fitting Studio on Kirkdale, or the School Street trial on TA from those who demanded action. Who would ever be a councillor eh?

35 Likes

I am working atm so will come back with a fuller answer in a bit but wanted to answer 1 remark. To my certain knowledge we have only banned 1 person. And that was after many, many requests for them to adhere to forum rules, they chose to repeatedly ignore all of the requests so were removed. They have posted endlessly on other local forums about this. The simple fact is we made a simple request of them, as we do with everyone, they ignored it, they were banned. ALL the mods agreed to this action.

2 Likes

Actually I will ask you a question on this. Why would we hide it?

1 Like

What a post. Thank you @LeoGibbons – this must have taken a long time to put together. I also hope this doesn’t get hidden; I think it’s thorough and constructive, and gives expression to the concerns and observations of many.

And thank you for the work you do daily! It’s appreciated – if only we were as vocal in our appreciation as we are in our ire! (And I include myself in that statement…!)

15 Likes

I admire your commitment and passion in defending the past actions of this forum. However, I beg you to ‘listen’ to what is be said by those who have been too afraid to speak up before.

I also suggest that any further comment is a combined effort between @ForestHull and the other moderators before you do any further damage.

2 Likes